So I haven’t always been a tomboy but about when I was in third grade (we had uniforms on my school) the other girls were all girly and felt like I didn’t belong. I didn’t know what was wrong with me and I wrote in my diary how I thought I was gay and everything (I’m not, I like guys) and I was very sad all the time. Later that school year my mom found the diary and asked me if I was gay. I said I didn’t know but I didn’t tell her everything. She still looks at me funny if I want to buy a “boy looking shirt” or whatever. Now I just started middle school and my mom let me cut my hair super short like Afro short, and I was so happy. But I want to wear boys clothes and I don’t know how to tell her. She wants me to be a girly girl but I don’t want to be. Help!!!